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The Womanly Art of Blogging by Kerry Clare

July 6, 2011

Kerry Clare reads and writes in Toronto where she lives with her husband and daughter. She is an editor, fiction-writer, essayist, book reviewer, literary critic and writing instructor, and has been blogging since 2000, maintaining the literary blog Pickle Me This since 2006. Her essays, short fiction and criticism have appeared in magazines including The New Quarterly, The Globe and Mail, Quill & Quire, Canadian Notes & Queries, and Readers Digest. Her essay “Love is a Let-Down” was featured by the UTNE Reader, and shortlisted for a 2011 National Magazine Award.

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Scott Rosenberg forgot to put women in his definitive history of blogging, Say Everything: How Blogging Began, Where It’s Going and Why It Matters except for Dooce, of course, who was infamously fired when her boss discovered her blog, and who also documented her mental breakdown following the birth of her first child a few years later. Rosenberg does permit Blogger co-founder Meg Hourihan a brief appearance in his book, running out of her office in tears, but other than these two women, the oversharing, cyber-feuding, troll-feeding history of blogs has mostly been an all-male affair.

Margaret Wente thinks so too. “It’s more of a guy thing,” she wrote in a Globe and Mail column last year. “Not many women are interested enough in spitting out an opinion on current events every 20 minutes.” Of course, Margaret Wente was also demonstrating a better understanding of bloggers than she was letting on, intentionally provoking women to link to her article in their furious response posts, thereby delivering herself an barrage of page hits.

But Wente’s point of view was still a curious one, and just as curious was Scott Rosenberg’s apparent presumption that women had had so little part in how blogging began, where it’s going, or why it matters. All this particularly curious from the vantage point of my own little blogosphere (and there are, in fact, many blogospheres, as Scott Rosenberg correctly asserts in his actually quite interesting book), in which male bloggers are ridiculously scarce.

I’m not saying there aren’t any male bloggers—I just don’t read many of them. Though I also don’t read a lot of blogs written by women too: craft blogs, parenting blogs, home renovation blogs, fashion blogs, pregnancy blogs, infertility blogs, food blogs, and blogs about vintage rocking chairs. But the blogs that interest me, the literary ones— from the perspectives of common readers, academics, novelists, poets, mothers, book fetishists, illustrators, librarians, literary gossips, and critics alike—almost all of them are written by women.

Perhaps in some blogospheres, opinions spat out every 20 minutes actually constitutes a blog, but not in mine. Instead of, “Look at me!”, the bloggers I like best use their platform to say, “Look at this!”, and point me to wondrous things in the world. On these blogs, I find book reviews and recommendations, photographs, essays, critical responses to current events literary or otherwise. I find conversations, I find art opened up. I hear stories told and retold, I hear people asking questions, I see people making connections—between each other, between the books they’re reading, and the literature they’re making.

Of course, not everything is always so profound. And there are many more terrible blogs than there are good ones, but there are good ones, so many good ones. And what I mean to say, I think, is that there is something inherently womanly about blogging as I’ve come to understand it. Not just, of course, because it’s the latest in a long line of endeavours in which women have partaken in involving unpaid labour and undervalued craft. Or because the anonymity offered by blogs also offers a spectacular forum for women at their very bitchiest, though that’s a part of it too. But rather that the community-making that’s so essential to blogging seems like the kind of thing women have always been doing, whether historians saw fit to include it in the official record or not.

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  1. I read this article on She Writes, and then found this site by way of Kerry Clare’s blog – which I love, and have bookmarked under a folder on my bookmarks bar. 🙂 I love the idea of this site, and agreed with Kerry’s opinions on having a blog that talks about “things” instead of “me” (or the individual blogging). It reminds me of this quote I read somewhere of Eleanor Roosevelt’s. She said something to the effect of, when you’re talking about people, you’re not really talking about anything, but when you’re talking about ideas, that’s when you’re talking about something. I agree and disagree with the statement. I think you can be talking about a person and still be “talking” substantially about something, but I agree that people don’t really talk about ideas a whole lot anymore, and I think that’s what she was trying to get at. It almost sounded like she was saying there’s too much gossip about people and not enough substantial conversation about people. Maybe she meant that you need to have concrete information about a person when you talk about them, otherwise it just sounds like you’re running your mouth, and you don’t know what you’re actually talking about – which is something that Kerry mentioned in one of her previous blog posts on her blog. I’m really glad I stopped by here. Looking forward to reading more interviews!

  2. What a fantastic article, I love the many points that she makes. I remember reading Say Everything but can’t recall if I really recognized the lack of women – I was more upset by the lack of discussion of book blogging 😉

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  5. hello
    i am first time visting your blog really enjoyed the read what a fantastic points you mentioned in your article will share it with my friends too thnx for the nice and wonderful ideas

  6. Dear Kerry Clare: I really appreciate ur efforts. It is a nice article about the women. I like it so so much. Plz continue ur struggle in this regard.

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